Things to Remember when you are in confusion and Failure

Guys, life will never let you sit down comfortably in your position right now. As the saying goes, life is never Flat. There is also failure in some part of your life. So, you have to understand how to make your felling and emotion in extremely confusion in life.

Firstly, you have to follow and heard what your heart words. People born into the world with conscience. This might be tell everything which is believed to be true when people in confusion. Make sure that you always heard what your heart saying. On the other hand you must use your sense, Especially when you will take a decision. You must use your logic, before you regret it in the future.

Secondly. you must heard others opinion. All of the people have their own advice, rule, idea and taught in making life to be perfect. The people stands for your family, your partner and your close friend. You may heard their advice for you. Meanwhile, you have to filter whether the advice is appropriate with your condition or not.

next, remember that each of the human have their own uniqueness. You too! As what Oscar Wilde said "Be your self, everyone is already Taken". You have to remember that you are unique. You may use your skill, uniqueness to create something important for your life. It will be more useful if it is also good for others. Nobody can be seen as the same like you, except yourself!

Next important thing that you have to remember is, try to fined someone who understand your condition. Tied to tell your problem to them and asked their solution for you. This is really important for you because you will get strength from them, besides you can entertain your self by talking something which is funny and dispel your stress....

Good Luck

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Take it in positive view

Life is never flat and let you stay in your comfort. Challenge and fail is appear in everyone's life. Sometimes we never know what a surprising problem appear or what a lovely position we are. The things that we should remember is don't be cry to loud in sadness and don't be laugh so loud in your happiness. Sadness and happiness walks aside, in same road but in different way and time. This is really embarrassing moment in my life. 
I still remember when I hate math since I was in elementary school. I thought I would never love it in my life even I know it's important. From there an then, I never want to learn and fight with it. Even I got worst mark, I was never change it. Just let it flow by a reason " that's not my hobby, that's not my future, my future is in language class". I know that was true, and I felt it happened until I was in junior and high school. I was never learn math unless I taught by killer teacher.I still felt that math never give effect with my life, it just burden me, anytime!. Again and again i ignored it, and I know that my teacher would spoiled me by gave me good mark, even I knew it was not my work, it was not my result, absolutely!
Now the situation is different.Finally I choose the department as I expected since I was in elementary school, that is language department. I love it, and i proud to be here. One day, I got a course and I was not really love it. That was because it seems like math, and I saw it as difficult as math. As what I did in math, I ignored it and felt that it wasn't t my hobby, it was not my future. The 'teacher" will help my mark and so on. That was my negative thinking on me. I tried hard to learn it, but I used to fail. After that, I was give up and back to my "bad" motto. Finally, at the end o the semester I fail! Actually, I was not really surprised, I was not afraid, I felt calm and I have no tears welling up. Meanwhile, my lectures said different thing and from different view. I didn't know that he already help my mark, but it didn't work. I disappointed with myself. Moreover when he said "sorry, i could do nothing. I just do my job as the rule". I am not angry with that, but it was inspiring e that he was an professional lecturer and he helped me to change my bad paradigm about "teacher" who always help their student when they know them, and spoiled them by give good mark, even the result is not appropriate. If you are the parts of teacher, stop your act in making your to be spoiled by helping their mark to be good. It work, if you want to increase their prestige, but its totally fail for their future. They will never learn, they will never fight. They will always proud with "fake mark" .....

with hug

Nana, i sadness