Things to Remember when you are in confusion and Failure

Guys, life will never let you sit down comfortably in your position right now. As the saying goes, life is never Flat. There is also failure in some part of your life. So, you have to understand how to make your felling and emotion in extremely confusion in life.

Firstly, you have to follow and heard what your heart words. People born into the world with conscience. This might be tell everything which is believed to be true when people in confusion. Make sure that you always heard what your heart saying. On the other hand you must use your sense, Especially when you will take a decision. You must use your logic, before you regret it in the future.

Secondly. you must heard others opinion. All of the people have their own advice, rule, idea and taught in making life to be perfect. The people stands for your family, your partner and your close friend. You may heard their advice for you. Meanwhile, you have to filter whether the advice is appropriate with your condition or not.

next, remember that each of the human have their own uniqueness. You too! As what Oscar Wilde said "Be your self, everyone is already Taken". You have to remember that you are unique. You may use your skill, uniqueness to create something important for your life. It will be more useful if it is also good for others. Nobody can be seen as the same like you, except yourself!

Next important thing that you have to remember is, try to fined someone who understand your condition. Tied to tell your problem to them and asked their solution for you. This is really important for you because you will get strength from them, besides you can entertain your self by talking something which is funny and dispel your stress....

Good Luck

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”.

Take it in positive view

Life is never flat and let you stay in your comfort. Challenge and fail is appear in everyone's life. Sometimes we never know what a surprising problem appear or what a lovely position we are. The things that we should remember is don't be cry to loud in sadness and don't be laugh so loud in your happiness. Sadness and happiness walks aside, in same road but in different way and time. This is really embarrassing moment in my life. 
I still remember when I hate math since I was in elementary school. I thought I would never love it in my life even I know it's important. From there an then, I never want to learn and fight with it. Even I got worst mark, I was never change it. Just let it flow by a reason " that's not my hobby, that's not my future, my future is in language class". I know that was true, and I felt it happened until I was in junior and high school. I was never learn math unless I taught by killer teacher.I still felt that math never give effect with my life, it just burden me, anytime!. Again and again i ignored it, and I know that my teacher would spoiled me by gave me good mark, even I knew it was not my work, it was not my result, absolutely!
Now the situation is different.Finally I choose the department as I expected since I was in elementary school, that is language department. I love it, and i proud to be here. One day, I got a course and I was not really love it. That was because it seems like math, and I saw it as difficult as math. As what I did in math, I ignored it and felt that it wasn't t my hobby, it was not my future. The 'teacher" will help my mark and so on. That was my negative thinking on me. I tried hard to learn it, but I used to fail. After that, I was give up and back to my "bad" motto. Finally, at the end o the semester I fail! Actually, I was not really surprised, I was not afraid, I felt calm and I have no tears welling up. Meanwhile, my lectures said different thing and from different view. I didn't know that he already help my mark, but it didn't work. I disappointed with myself. Moreover when he said "sorry, i could do nothing. I just do my job as the rule". I am not angry with that, but it was inspiring e that he was an professional lecturer and he helped me to change my bad paradigm about "teacher" who always help their student when they know them, and spoiled them by give good mark, even the result is not appropriate. If you are the parts of teacher, stop your act in making your to be spoiled by helping their mark to be good. It work, if you want to increase their prestige, but its totally fail for their future. They will never learn, they will never fight. They will always proud with "fake mark" .....

with hug

Nana, i sadness

Winner

When I was in junior high school, I really hated English in my class. It was because my teacher didn’t teach us well. I didn’t know anything about English at that time, unless to introduce myself. One day, My teacher told me that there would be an English competition that was story telling competition. At first, I felt impossible to join that competition. Then, my teacher asked me to join that competition. I was really surprised when she asked to join it because I knew I couldn’t speak English well. That was why I did not feel confident at all. On the other hand, I knew that to be a winner of a competition would bring a pride and I should struggle for it.

Being the participant of that competition made me unconfident. When I was trusted as the participant of the competition, I was very nervous and doubt. I believed that my English wasn’t good at all. I felt so scary because I felt I would ashamed myself and my school. I was really confused and frightened that I couldn’t do my best. I accepted what my teacher’s offered to me even though I was not sure I could be the best. My teacher brought the story to me. I still remember the title until now, that was “Mouse Deer and Farmer”.  As what I guess before, I was really confused with what the story about. My teacher asked me to read that story. Oh my goodness! It was bad pronunciation ever in my life. At that time, I was crying because I felt it was really burden me a lot. My teacher used to support and motivate me. She said that I could do that. I realized that it was the fact that I should face. I have to deal with that. I should try my best. With a hard work, I could memorize the whole story. The “mouse deer” inspired me, if I want to get something precious I should brave myself, as the mouse deer tried hard to get cucumber from the farmer’s land.

It was 15^th December 2007 when the day of competition came. I was come with big confident. There was no doubtful at all. I met the contestants who came from so many schools. They looked as confident as they came with their friend but I came alone from my school. I’ve tried to brave myself. When the competition started, I saw other contestant was really good when performed their story. When I got my turn, I felt nervous. Suddenly, when I was standing up on the stage, I forgot my scary feeling. When I saw the judge, I became more spirit again. I finished my storytelling with big applause from judge and audience. I was really happy with my first performance.

After all of the contestant performed, the judge announced who were awarded as the winners. The judge who is a lecturer of English Education Department Undiksha, called the big ten position. From ten to four places, the judge didn’t call my name. I felt little bit disappointed. I decided to back home, because I felt I wouldn’t be the winner. When I went out of from the room, the judge called my name. I didn’t heard clearly then I said “excuse me, did you call my name?” She suddenly replied “ yes  Angga, you get the big three position and you will come to Denpasar and become delegation of Buleleng next month” I was really surprised and I went up to the stage. I got the trophy and congrats from the judge. I awarded as the winner because the judge said that I was really entertaining and made them laughed while I was telling the story, especially for the judge who was coming from Australia.

It was precious moment in my life. I got an excited experience in my life. I knew how to strengthen myself and I knew how to control my emotion. Moreover, I love English started from that moment. I still remember the story that is the mouse deer which worked hard to found cucumber from the farmer’s land, and that was inspiring me. I feel so proud of myself to be the winner.

"sun of my life"

Who is the most important person in your life? Is that your father? Why do you think you love him and respect him? Can you imagine if you lost him in your life? How does he show his love to you? Does he influence your life? What have you done to respect him? Each human of course have their most important person in their life. My father is person who really important in my life. He loves me every time since I was born. With his sincerity, he always takes care of me. He seems like sun of my life.  For me, there are 3 things that make him as perfect father. He is really hard worker, good appearance and good personality.

To begin with, my father is a hard worker man. He work in Surabaya and back home after a week. He does that, because he wants to make his family to be happy. He worked hard to buy food, pay for school of his children. Even though he back after a week, he still love his family and always bring us something when his return. My father really inspiring me and always motivated me. He told me that to be a success person needs much spirit and hard work.

Second, my father is a handsome man. Although now he is 45 years old, but he still look handsome and charming. He is diligent to take care of his body and health. When he returns from his work, she always does and exercises to keep his body stay health. Besides he loves to do man’s treatment like body massage. He smart in manage his time for himself. He also has great time to take a holiday to avoid stress. That’s why he still looks interesting.

Third, my father has good personality. My father is a friendly man. He always smiles to people around him. He also has good time to talk together with his neighbor. He always tried to build good relationship. Every day he gives money pocket for children who play with my younger sister, or sometimes give them ice cream. Besides, my father loves to help his neighbor who get problem. As I remember, my father help my neighbor to bring him to the hospital when he got sick and he pay for the cost. I feel so lucky to be his daughter.

My father is just one example how to be good father. Family does not always need money, but they also need care and happiness. My father completed what his family needed. He worked hard for his family and be a good person. Besides, she always has time for himself. I love my father so much. He seems like sun in my life. I can’t imagine if I lost him in my life. He is perfect man for now and forever.

She is my best friend

Who is your close friend? Does she / he is your classmates? Does she/he understand you? Do you love share your problem or happiness to him/her? Best friend is one of person who really close with us and important in our life. We know that we can’t live alone. For me, best friend is person who is the first time I looked for when I was sad or happy. My best friend in my life is Ni Nyoman Ayu Padmitri. She is one of my classmates. For me, she is kind, she is clever, she always understands and also attractive.

To begin with, Ni Nyoman Ayu Padmitri is a kind person. Whenever I need her to help me, she always helps me. I still remember the day when I got big problem with mother. We got an argument for a week. Then, Ayu kindly told me that mother a person who we should to respect. She helps me to make my relationship with my, mother getting better. Ayu also helps me to solve my problem in my study. I know that I’m not perfect yet in my study, so that’s why I always ask her for advice. When I got confused while I’m doing my assignment, I asked her for help me and make my work easier.

Second, Ayu is a clever woman. Each of the members in class knows she is good in grammar class. She is called as “Miss Grammar” when we were in second semester. Besides, she is my consultant whenever I got confused with my course and I always asked her about my problem. For instance, when I found difficulty to understand with some patterns in Grammar, I always asked him to know the answer.

As a friend, she always understands my strength and weaknesses. She is the one who I trust to talk with. I tell her each of my problems and I asked for solution. Not only for my problem, I also told my happiness to her. Besides, she accepts me as her close friend, even though I do mistake or something wrong with her. I respect her as my best friend.

Woman and fashion cannot be separated. It seems like Ayu too. She loves fashion so much. When she goes to campus she wears up to date fashion and also colorful. She also loves to use cosmetics. She often search some make up tutorial on internet. She looks pretty and attractive in every moment.

So, how close are you with your friend? How often you share your feeling to your best friend? A friend is like a little god who knows your personality, that’s why they understand us. We should build good relationship with our close friend. Sadness, love, happiness and everything we share with our close friend. Ayu Padmitri is a good friend and really important in my life. She always understands me. She is kind, clever and also attractive

"Change is Imortal"

What is your precious moment in your life? Is t about love? Is it about family life? I do believe it would be great moment in our life. How about bad experience? Is it important to change your life? I give my answer “yes” for this last question. When I was senior high school, I got an accident and made me should do a head surgery because my head was injured. I took rest for a month to recover and also to refresh my brain after I got coma for two days. Two months later, I felt better and I decided to come to school. At first time I back to school, everybody was looking at me strangely. I was coming without my hair. I came with my wig because I was bald after surgery. They were bullying at me! I tried to be patient, even though I was really hurt. After A week in school with new face, I was turned into different person. I realized that happened to me because I didn’t want to show my weakness. Since that accident, I was turned into scold, brave and mature.

To begin with, after the biggest crash in my life, I turned into scold person. Few years ago, I was well-known as quiet girl. I didn’t love to talk as much as right now. I prefer to be quiet. It was different condition now. I changes into scold person. I often talk to everybody to express my feeling rather than I keep quite. On the other hand, I feel this much better because it made me more honest. I want to show that I could change into better person and I could show it now.

I still remember the moment in my elementary school. I am afraid to do something. I was afraid that I would be wrong. It happened until I was I Senior High School. Suddenly, I would never felt this feeling anymore. It was change I recover from my pain. My eyes opened and I thought I didn’t need to do so. Now, I was become brave person. I trusted myself that I can do that. I decided what I should do bravely and I promised to be brave in any situation.

“How old are you?” this question commonly appeared when you as adult person but still act like a child. It happened to me. Even though I was belongs to teenager to be mature, I still act like seven years old. To be honest, I never understand how to show love to someone special and didn’t know how to love someone. I just feel in love with someone who I admired. It was still happened until I am student of senior high school. Moreover, I still remember with someone who was broken heart because of my childish act. I almost never appreciate his love. I never understand his condition. How wicked I am when I asked him to brought meal for me at 1 am. At that time he was tired because he did a lot of job. I promised it would be happen again. Everything is change. I became mature person. I believed that it was bad act ever in my life. I felt guilty for that.

We would agree that an accident is really bad moment. It made us became poorer and lost everything we have. We lost life, love, money, or anything else. No one will know what will happen tomorrow. I am just an example how an accident can change our behavior. Since that accident, I was change into scold, brave and mature person. Life will meet the end, but change is immortal

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